Getting Remarried? 3 Essential Habits That Make Second Marriages Stronger
So, you're tying the knot... again?
First of all—congrats! Whether you're walking down the aisle for the second time or blending a family, remarriage is a bold, hopeful step forward. But let’s be honest: with that hope comes a little anxiety too.
You might be wondering things like:
“Am I doing it right this time?”
“What if I repeat the same mistakes?”
“Is this relationship strong enough to last?”
Totally normal. And while advice might be coming at you from every direction (your friends, your mom, your favorite podcast…), we’re here to simplify things.
Here are three powerful, research-backed habits that successful remarried couples say make all the difference. Let’s break them down.
1. Compliment Each Other Regularly (No Eye-Rolling, It Works)
It sounds almost too simple—but genuine compliments are one of the best ways to keep love alive.
When you make it a habit to praise your partner—whether it’s how they handled a tough day or how good they look in that hoodie—you’re training your brain to focus on the good. And guess what? The more you notice and appreciate the good, the more good you both tend to show up with.
💡 Quick Tip:
Try the “3-to-1 rule.” For every one complaint or correction, aim for at least three compliments or positive comments. Your vibe will totally shift.
2. Think Like a Team, Not Like Two Opponents
Remarriage means blending not just hearts, but habits, routines, finances, and sometimes kids. You might have different expectations based on past experiences—and that’s okay.
The secret? Teamwork.
When challenges come up (and they will), approach them like you’re solving a problem together, not trying to “win” or be “right.”
👊 Real Talk:
It’s not you vs. your partner—it’s both of you vs. the problem. Lean into collaboration, not competition.
3. Talk More Than You Think You Need To
Yeah, yeah—we know. Every relationship blog says “communication is key.” But this one’s even more important the second time around.
Second marriages often come with more layers—co-parenting dynamics, exes, finances, even just new emotional baggage. That means consistent, honest, and low-stress conversations are your best friend.
💬 Try This:
Set aside 10–15 minutes a day to just talk. No phones. No distractions.
Ask questions like, “How are we doing?” or “What can I do to support you this week?”
Don’t just talk logistics—share feelings, too.
Communication isn’t about solving everything on the spot. It’s about building trust, understanding, and staying connected.
The Real Secret to Remarriage Success? Hope + Daily Effort
Getting remarried isn’t just a relationship reset—it’s a bold declaration of hope.
You’ve been through enough to know that love takes work. And now you’re choosing to do the work together. With habits like complimenting each other, staying team-minded, and having regular heart-to-hearts, you’re setting a strong foundation for a lasting, fulfilling partnership.
There’s no perfect formula. But there is progress. And if you’re showing up with intention, compassion, and a willingness to grow together? You’re already doing it right.